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Sex and Running - The Perfect
Couple
By Rob Spedding (Courtesy of Runners World) |
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Twenty-two-and-a-half minutes is an impressive amount of
time to spend warming up before a bout of physical activity,
so hats off to the British as, according to a recent survey,
that’s how long we spend preparing for action. You're
probably thinking a little light jogging, a few stretches,
some strides… erm, how about a little nibble on the ear,
maybe a tweak of a nipple. The report in question was the
2004 Durex Global Sex Survey and 221/2 minutes is the
average time we, apparently, spend on foreplay.
As well as topping the foreplay league, British adults
also performed rather well when it came to the amount of sex
we enjoy. The Global Sex Survey found the average British
adult has sex 119 times a year. The thing is, as a runner
there's a very good chance that you're thinking "Is that
all!" When RUNNER'S WORLD readers were asked, more than
three quarters of you reported that running has enhanced
your level of sexual activity, and experts agree: "There's
no doubt running is good for your sex life," says Dr Petra
Boynton, a sex psychologist and lecturer in health research
at University College London. "One of the main reasons for
this is that healthy people – and runners obviously fall
into this category – generally have better sex lives than
unhealthy folk as they're less likely to encounter sexual
problems."
Boynton has carried out research where, as well as
quizzing people about how often they're having sex and who
with, she's looked at their medical history. "The worse
people's health was, the more likely they were to either
have sexual problems, or not have sex at all." Dr Patrick
Milroy, RW Medical Advisor agrees: "Health problems linked
to a lack of exercise, such as obesity, hypertension, and
diabetes can all contribute to sexual problems," he explains
"and so can habits such as heavy smoking and drinking which,
as a rule, runners tend to steer clear of."
It isn't just physical, either. "Running is great for
your emotional health," says physiologist Ian Craig. "It
puts you in a positive mood, lowers stress and can even help
ward off depression, which will make you more inclined to
feel sexy and be intimate with your partner." Milroy agrees:
"The feel-good hormones endorphins are produced when you
run," he says. "You always feel better about yourself after
a run, and if you feel better about yourself then you're
more likely to fancy sex."
Boynton even believes the act of running can make you a
better lover. "As a runner you spend time on your own,
developing an awareness of your body," she says. "You think
about your breathing, the way that you're moving, and focus
on your technique, how you're feeling and what feels good
and what doesn't. Apply these principles in bed as well, and
it'll improve your experience and your partner's
experience." Still need convincing that runs and romps are
perfect bedfellows? Then here are eight more reasons why
running really will make you a better lover.
It'll help you have more sex
Forget placing an advert in a contact magazine, just going
for a run will lead to more sex. We're not promising that
every run will see you chased through the park by scantily
clad members of the opposite sex or suggesting that running
clubs are hotbeds of swinging, but being fit can result in
more bedroom action. The evidence comes from Professor James
White, an expert on fitness and sex at the University of
California at San Diego who had 78 men follow a moderate
aerobic regimen four times per week. After nine months, the
men reported their rate of sexual intercourse had leaped an
average of 30 per cent, with 26 per cent more orgasms.
Californian scientists are obviously very interested in sex
and exercise, as another study – this time an 18-year
research project of 751 volunteers at the Center for Marital
and Sexual Studies in Long Beach – found that regular
exercisers reached orgasm easiest and most often.
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It'll make you feel sexier
Even if you find that our first promise doesn't come true
instantly, you're still going to be irresistible to someone.
Okay, it's you, but that's a start. A study carried out
earlier this year at the University of Arkansas found that
people who worked out regularly felt more sexually
attractive than their less-active peers.
Researcher Tina Penhollow interviewed 408 students and
found that among those who exercised two to three times a
week, 80 per cent of men and 60 per cent of women reckoned
they were above average when it came to sexual desirability.
Women will no doubt feel the fact that 100 per cent of the
gents, but just 63 per cent of ladies who exercised six to
seven times a week rated their sexual attractiveness as
above average as further proof that men have rather high
opinions of themselves. Mind you, among people whose fitness
level was above average, 80 per cent of women rated their
sexual performance better than most, compared with just 47
per cent of the men.
It'll make a man of you again
It's not just 10K times that start to droop as you age.
According to 50,000 US medics who were questioned for the
Health Professional Follow-up Study, men experience a sharp
decline in their sexual functioning as they hit their 50s.
The study revealed that 33 per cent of the men questioned
had experienced erectile dysfunction in the previous three
months. The good news, though, is running acts as a natural
Viagra.
One study, published in the Annals of Internal Medicine
found that men who exercised "vigorously" several times a
week, reduced their risk of erectile dysfunction by 30 per
cent compared with couch potatoes. The same study found
chaps with a Body Mass Index greater than 28.7 had a 30 per
cent higher risk of flopping in bed than those with a more
runner-esque BMI of less than 23.
Meanwhile, Dr Steven Lamm, an assistant professor at the
New York University School of Medicine and the author of The
Hardness Factor: How to Achieve Your Best Health and Sexual
Fitness at Any Age says that when you exercise, blood flow
increases, blood rushes through your endothelial cells (the
lining of the blood vessels) and stimulates them to make
more nitric oxide, a key chemical involved in producing
erections. "The healthier a man is, the more nitric oxide he
produces, and the harder his erection is," says Lamm.
It'll make you feel like a natural
woman
It's an old cliché, but little dampens the mood for a spot
of loving more than a headache. For some women, though, a
migraine is nothing compared to the passion-killing powers
of pre-menstrual syndrome: depression, cramps, bloating and
sore breasts just aren't sexy. If you do suffer from PMS,
though, running could be just the thing to keep it at bay.
One study found that women who ran an average of just 12
miles a week for six months reported less breast tenderness,
bloating, depression and stress. It's thought that the
feel-good endorphins released during a run ease these
symptoms. Running can also provide a welcome boost during
the menopause, a time when women's sex drives tend to drop.
One five-year study followed 27 women through the menopause
and found the only factor that seemed to affect a woman's
sexual satisfaction was exercise – the more they exercised
during the study, the greater their sexual satisfaction.
Even if you don't suffer PMS or the menopause is a long
way off or in the past, running will boost your libido: a
RUNNER'S WORLD poll found that 83 per cent of women
questioned felt jogging had given their sex life a boost.
It'll make you feel young again
Many of us run because we hope it'll ward off the ravages of
time. There's little evidence a 30-mile week will fight
baldness or grey hair – just check out the RW office – but
exercise can keep your sex life young. Scientists at Harvard
University studied 160 male and female swimmers in their 40s
and 60s and found a positive relationship between regular
exercise and sexuality in terms of the frequency and
enjoyment of intercourse.
"The swimmers in their 60s reported sex lives comparable
to people in the general population in their 40s," reported
anthropologist Phillip Whitten. "The swimmers in their 40s
had sex lives more like those of people in their 20s and
30s." In a study at the University of Newcastle upon Tyne,
men aged 55 to 65 who ran more than 40 miles a week had
higher levels of testosterone and growth hormone than
sedentary men, indicating runners had healthier sex drives.
It'll help you pace yourself
Heavy breathing, lots of sweat, a final desperate surge to
the finish… Racing and love-making can be pretty similar,
and if you ever find yourself coming to a climax too
quickly, then applying race technique between the sheets
really could help. "If you're aiming for a five-hour
marathon, but arrive at the first mile and find yourself
going too fast, you know what to do – slow down, find the
right rhythm and get yourself back on track," says Dr Petra
Boynton. "When you're having sex, the opposite is more
likely: you'll realise that you're going too fast and simply
break into a sprint." Instead, says Boynton, do what you'd
do in a race. Stopping and stretching isn't a good idea, but
taking stock, pacing yourself and, most of all, relaxing can
make embarrassing finishes a thing of the past
It'll turn you on
Ronhill Tracksters and a rain-jacket don't rank alongside
stockings and suspenders or a fireman's uniform in any list
of turn-ons. However, you might want to rip 'em off after a
speed session as the very act of running most definitely is.
Researchers at the University of North Carolina found
athletes who exercised at 70 per cent of their VO2 max
experienced a 40 per cent increase in free-testosterone, a
38 per cent increase in cortisol, and an increase in
epinephrine.
These higher hormone levels all contribute to a
heightened sexual arousal. Scientists at Chicago State
University found almost one in four of the women they
questioned had experienced sexual arousal, or even orgasm,
while exercising. There's more: 35 women aged between 18 and
34 were shown a short travel film, then an X-rated film on
two occasions. The first time the ladies cycled vigorously
for 20 minutes, the second time they did not. After
measuring the subjects' sexual response, using a device that
measures blood flow in genital tissue, researchers found
that after exercising the vaginal responses were 169 per
cent greater.
It'll even help you set personal
bests
Forget the oft-repeated line that you should abstain from
sex before a race. Lovemaking before a big event is
extremely unlikely to have a negative effect. Ian Shrier, a
researcher at the Centre for Clinical Epidemiology in
Montreal, Canada reviewed all the scientific studies
addressing the physiological effects of pre-competition sex
and concluded that it "doesn't affect aerobic capacity,
strength, balance, reaction time or any other factors that
may influence athletic performance the next day".
This isn't really that surprising as intercourse between
married partners only burns 25-50 calories – the equivalent
of climbing two flights of stairs – so you're unlikely to be
too tired for the next day's marathon. In fact, sex before a
26.2-miler could lead to a PB. "I've heard lots of stories
of women who say they've actually run better after having
sex before a race," says Milroy. There might even be some
evidence to back up his claim: a survey of 2,000 runners at
the Flora London Marathon revealed that the runners who'd
had sex the night before the race ran faster than the
entrants who'd abstained.
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